Thursday, June 23, 2011

Break


My dad passad away very suddenly in January this year. I'm still trying to understand that he won't be around to see my kids grow up. He loved being a grandad. The time has now come for me and my family to go through his belongings, clean out and eventually sell the house he built, and where I grew up. Therefore, I'm taking a couple of weeks off blogging. I'm also going to festival with my husband, without the kids. I hope it will be a nice break from a very emotional situation. So, take care and enjoy summer!
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19 comments:

  1. jenniferJune 23, 2011 at 2:15 PM

    Oh, I'm really sorry to hear about your Dad. That must have been very difficult to cope with.

    I know it's not exactly the same thing, but I found going through and cleaning up my grandparents' belongings after they each passed to be an incredibly cathartic experience. Good luck in the upcoming weeks. I hope you're able to get everything done smoothly.

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  2. AmandaJune 23, 2011 at 2:39 PM

    I have nothing to say except to give you a virtual hug, and I hope you have both a good time at the festival and that everything works out well.

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  3. SJune 23, 2011 at 4:07 PM

    Is that a picture of your dad? What an amazing shot! Like from a movie. I don't know, I have very bad memories of cleaning up my mom's house ... figuring out what to do with everything. I guess it's just one of those necessary things you have to go through, almost like this thing that you have upcoming that you really dread and perhaps even gets in the way of really properly mourning your loss. But afterward, I believe you *will* feel a great weight lifted. Best of luck, and have an amazing time at festival! I expect pictures!

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  4. miss sophieJune 23, 2011 at 8:05 PM

    i'm so very sorry to hear that about your dad. what a wonderful photo of him - enjoy the time with your husband and big hugs from nyc. take care!

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  5. agnes comme felliniJune 24, 2011 at 1:13 AM

    I had to go through the same thing when my dad passed away 10 years ago. It was actually very cathartic despite how painful it was before doing it. It's a perfect opportunity to say goodbye, not only to your father but to your childhood. To realize that your father and the place you grew up brought you to where you are now. I'm sure you'll find things you've forgotten about and familiar things will be seen in a new light.

    A childless festival with your husband sounds like a perfect way to lift your spirits. Enjoy your summer with your family!

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  6. GarderobenJune 24, 2011 at 2:38 AM

    Thanks for your kind words, I really appreciate it. This is my first big loss. My grandparents passed away when I was young, and even though I was mourning, this is a very different experience. You can never prepare yourself for the loss of a parent, I've always been dreading it.I guess it's harder to grasp in some ways when it happens suddenly, but then, I'm glad he wasn't ill and suffering for a long time. I don't know. I hope it will be a cathartic experience. Like you said, S, now it feels like it's getting in the way of mourning the loss. And yes, that's a picture of my dad, I love it! He looks a bit like Tom Cruise's and Kevin Costner's love child, don't you think:)?
    I'll try to get some pictures at the festival, it's actually quite the fashion experience, some people there go out of their way to look chic and stylish. Thanks again, and take care!

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  7. yanqinJune 24, 2011 at 3:04 AM

    I have never lost a love one, so I can't imagine how you might be feeling, but I hope you have a good break! And yes, that picture of your father is amazing.

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  8. Peace in mindJune 24, 2011 at 5:35 AM

    Take good care of you, and be back as soon as you feel the need for it. I'll be thinking of you when visiting the Hope store for their summer sale...

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  9. Lindsay KJune 24, 2011 at 6:43 PM

    I'm so sorry to hear this. I have never lost a loved one and cannot imagine how you are feeling. I'm thinking of you.

    The picture of your father is breathtaking. It reminds me of "On the Road."

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  10. SJune 24, 2011 at 8:16 PM

    "Tom Cruise's and Kevin Costner's love child" HA! I can totally see it! Handsome man :)

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  11. GarderobenJune 25, 2011 at 2:16 AM

    lin, Lindsay K, Peace in mind - thanks for your comments and thoughts. Peace in mind - Hope are having a VIP sale online right now, so I already took care of that:)!
    S - I know:)!

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  12. AïssaJune 25, 2011 at 2:25 AM

    Take care. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know everyone will eventually experience this tragedy but it doesn't make me dread it less.

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  13. AnonymousJune 25, 2011 at 8:56 AM

    I'm sorry for your loss. Take time to enjoy the simple things in life. We'll be here when you come back.

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  14. GarderobenJune 25, 2011 at 11:56 AM

    Aïssa, Emmy - I really appreciate your kind words. I've always dreaded this, but didn't think it would happen now, maybe in 15 years. It's way too soon.

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  15. La Fille mal GardéeJune 26, 2011 at 9:24 PM

    Look after yourself, you deserve some R&R. Sometimes we all need to drop out and take stock of where we are. I am deeply sorry for your loss and I hope you find peace soon. X

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  16. AnonymousJune 28, 2011 at 5:36 AM

    My thoughts are with you and your family. We will be awaiting your return. x

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  17. GarderobenJune 28, 2011 at 9:33 AM

    Thanks La fille mal gardée and R A!

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  18. DanielleJune 29, 2011 at 6:33 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. I look forward to when you return to the blogosphere!

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  19. GarderobenJune 29, 2011 at 11:28 AM

    Danielle - thanks, I appreciate your comment.

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